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Domestic violence will often be physical but there are many other aspects of domestic violence that are not as visible as bruising, cuts or broken bones. The hidden part is the bullying, persistent threats, belittlement, accusations, blame, fear and uncertainty. Domestic violence can be physical, but can also be sexual, psychological/emotional and economical. Research shows that women's experience of domestic violence is likely to reflect a combination of these forms:
includes slapping, pushing, hitting, punching, kicking, choking, pulling hair, biting, cutting or scratching, withholding medication, burning or stabbing, pulling out hair, attempting to drown or strangle, attempting to murder and murder itself.
includes rape, using objects during intercourse against her will, forcing her to watch or engage in pornography or perform sexual acts in front of other people; forcing her to engage in any unwanted sexual act.
is often a more subtle form of violence. It can include humiliation in front of other; telling her she is useless, stupid or ugly; telling her she is a hopeless mother/housewife; making threats against her or her children; keeping her isolated from friends or family; preventing her from sleeping; making distorted 'justifications' for the abuse to make the woman feel it is her fault and she deserves it.
violence can be a very powerful form of control. It can include denying her money for food, clothes, even rent, for herself or her children, and stealing money from her.
All forms of domestic violence - psychological, economic, emotional and physical - come from the abuser's desire for power and control over other family members or intimate partners.
Although every situation is unique, there are common factors that link the experience of an abusive relationship. Acknowledging these factors is an important step in preventing and stopping abuse.
Research shows that Domestic Violence is most commonly experienced by women and perpetrated by men. Any woman can experience Domestic Violence regardless of race, ethnic or religious group, class, disability or lifestyle.
Domestic Violence can also take place in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender relationships, and can involve other family members, including children.
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